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	<title>Comments on: Addendum: Memory Lane</title>
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	<description>More than you ever wanted to hear from Bestselling Author Jenny Crusie.</description>
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		<title>By: Erin O'Brien</title>
		<link>http://www.arghink.com/2007/01/16/addendum-memory-lane/#comment-417</link>
		<dc:creator>Erin O'Brien</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jan 2007 22:13:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sheesh. Maybe she ought to be paying you?
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sheesh. Maybe she ought to be paying you?</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
		<link>http://www.arghink.com/2007/01/16/addendum-memory-lane/#comment-416</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jan 2007 22:13:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like your therapist.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like your therapist.</p>
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		<title>By: DownUnderGal</title>
		<link>http://www.arghink.com/2007/01/16/addendum-memory-lane/#comment-415</link>
		<dc:creator>DownUnderGal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jan 2007 22:12:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well psychology has certainly come a long way since Freud. Can&#039;t quite imagine old Sigmund supplying popcorn and wearing a t-shirt with the words &quot;straight jacket&quot; on it. But then if anyone needed a straight jacket.....

To everything - turn turn turn
There is a season turn turn turn
And a time for every purpose under heaven.

Karma baby, Karma.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well psychology has certainly come a long way since Freud. Can&#8217;t quite imagine old Sigmund supplying popcorn and wearing a t-shirt with the words &#8220;straight jacket&#8221; on it. But then if anyone needed a straight jacket&#8230;..</p>
<p>To everything &#8211; turn turn turn<br />
There is a season turn turn turn<br />
And a time for every purpose under heaven.</p>
<p>Karma baby, Karma.</p>
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		<title>By: Robena Grant</title>
		<link>http://www.arghink.com/2007/01/16/addendum-memory-lane/#comment-414</link>
		<dc:creator>Robena Grant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 22:11:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aww, Jenny, that&#039;s sad. But maybe the universe has something else in store for you. Maybe you and Bob are going to collaborate on a romantic comedy about the DLD tour. It could be fun.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aww, Jenny, that&#8217;s sad. But maybe the universe has something else in store for you. Maybe you and Bob are going to collaborate on a romantic comedy about the DLD tour. It could be fun.</p>
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		<title>By: McB</title>
		<link>http://www.arghink.com/2007/01/16/addendum-memory-lane/#comment-413</link>
		<dc:creator>McB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 22:10:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>TT said ... sometimes you&#039;ve reached your limit on personal growth ...

Oh, Amen! Sometimes you just want to scream that its someone else&#039;s turn to be the grown up.

&quot;reached your limit on personal growth&quot; I&#039;m going to remember that one.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>TT said &#8230; sometimes you&#8217;ve reached your limit on personal growth &#8230;</p>
<p>Oh, Amen! Sometimes you just want to scream that its someone else&#8217;s turn to be the grown up.</p>
<p>&#8220;reached your limit on personal growth&#8221; I&#8217;m going to remember that one.</p>
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		<title>By: Heidi</title>
		<link>http://www.arghink.com/2007/01/16/addendum-memory-lane/#comment-412</link>
		<dc:creator>Heidi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 22:10:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love Leah.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love Leah.</p>
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		<title>By: Chrissy Lou</title>
		<link>http://www.arghink.com/2007/01/16/addendum-memory-lane/#comment-411</link>
		<dc:creator>Chrissy Lou</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 22:09:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think I like your therapist. She sounds like the one I went to several years ago who said something along the lines of, &quot;Why would you want to attempt to retrieve repressed memories if your life is fine right now and those memories might make you miserable?&quot;
Well, duh.
I thanked her and went home, much relieved.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think I like your therapist. She sounds like the one I went to several years ago who said something along the lines of, &#8220;Why would you want to attempt to retrieve repressed memories if your life is fine right now and those memories might make you miserable?&#8221;<br />
Well, duh.<br />
I thanked her and went home, much relieved.</p>
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		<title>By: orangehands</title>
		<link>http://www.arghink.com/2007/01/16/addendum-memory-lane/#comment-410</link>
		<dc:creator>orangehands</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 22:08:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*snort* your therapist and office wench cherry&#039;s therapist and my old one should all get together. i think i had more than a few conversations like that. :) never gave me popcorn but she had stacks of candy. and tea. and really nice couches.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*snort* your therapist and office wench cherry&#8217;s therapist and my old one should all get together. i think i had more than a few conversations like that. <img src='http://www.arghink.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  never gave me popcorn but she had stacks of candy. and tea. and really nice couches.</p>
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		<title>By: btuda</title>
		<link>http://www.arghink.com/2007/01/16/addendum-memory-lane/#comment-409</link>
		<dc:creator>btuda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 22:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have to say, the popcorn cracks me up.

Next time on &quot;As the Stomach Churns,&quot; ...
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to say, the popcorn cracks me up.</p>
<p>Next time on &#8220;As the Stomach Churns,&#8221; &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Diane (TT)</title>
		<link>http://www.arghink.com/2007/01/16/addendum-memory-lane/#comment-408</link>
		<dc:creator>Diane (TT)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 22:07:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jen-T: I&#039;m with you. The only reason some things happen is because of the immutable laws of physics. Sure, one can become a better person in response, but sometimes you&#039;ve reached your limit on personal growth and more sucky things happen anyway.

I like Lynn&#039;s idea, Jenny - write it the way it should have happened. Just be sure you don&#039;t label it as a memoir if you start totally making things up...
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jen-T: I&#8217;m with you. The only reason some things happen is because of the immutable laws of physics. Sure, one can become a better person in response, but sometimes you&#8217;ve reached your limit on personal growth and more sucky things happen anyway.</p>
<p>I like Lynn&#8217;s idea, Jenny &#8211; write it the way it should have happened. Just be sure you don&#8217;t label it as a memoir if you start totally making things up&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: marcia in ok</title>
		<link>http://www.arghink.com/2007/01/16/addendum-memory-lane/#comment-407</link>
		<dc:creator>marcia in ok</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 22:06:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Moving on.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Moving on.</p>
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		<title>By: McB</title>
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		<dc:creator>McB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 22:05:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So basically you want us to shut up with all the &quot;you can recover stuff&quot; advice, right? Got it.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So basically you want us to shut up with all the &#8220;you can recover stuff&#8221; advice, right? Got it.</p>
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		<title>By: Jill</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 22:04:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tell her next time you want root beer and twizzlers.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tell her next time you want root beer and twizzlers.</p>
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		<title>By: Office Wench Cherry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Office Wench Cherry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 22:04:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>She sounds like my therapist. To our first session she wore a t-shirt that said &quot;Sometimes, when I can&#039;t sleep, I count the buckles on my straight jacket.&quot;

She doesn&#039;t have popcorn though.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>She sounds like my therapist. To our first session she wore a t-shirt that said &#8220;Sometimes, when I can&#8217;t sleep, I count the buckles on my straight jacket.&#8221;</p>
<p>She doesn&#8217;t have popcorn though.</p>
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		<title>By: Lynn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 21:39:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bless your heart. I think your therapist owes you a whole bag of junior mints!

If you can&#039;t find those lost/hidden/deleted messages, use what Bob saved and add your timeless insights.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bless your heart. I think your therapist owes you a whole bag of junior mints!</p>
<p>If you can&#8217;t find those lost/hidden/deleted messages, use what Bob saved and add your timeless insights.</p>
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		<title>By: Jennifer Talty</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jennifer Talty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 13:01:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh Jenny. I can&#039;t even begin to understand. But maybe it&#039;s all for the best. There is that old saying I love to hate, &quot;everything happens for a reason&quot;. To which I usually reply, well, I don&#039;t think I can say that here.

Keep pushing forward. All is good. Life is good. 2007 will rock. You Rock!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh Jenny. I can&#8217;t even begin to understand. But maybe it&#8217;s all for the best. There is that old saying I love to hate, &#8220;everything happens for a reason&#8221;. To which I usually reply, well, I don&#8217;t think I can say that here.</p>
<p>Keep pushing forward. All is good. Life is good. 2007 will rock. You Rock!</p>
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