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	<title>Comments on: Clue Cake, Anonymity, and Other Unprofessional Behavior</title>
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		<title>By: Jenny</title>
		<link>http://www.arghink.com/2006/11/15/clue-cake-anonymity-and-other-unprofessional-behavior/#comment-3845</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Apr 2007 03:28:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have no problem with anonymous blogging.  I have a problems with anonymous attacks.  

On Nov. 3, Miss Snark called Anne Stuart the Nitwit of the Day.  On Nov 9, she posted a blog about Anne Stuart that said “Cause once is never ever enough times to be the nitwit of the day.” On Nov. 11 she posted a blog about Anne Stuart called “Nitwitery Follow up.” At that point, I asked Anne Stuart if she had run over Miss Snark’s dog.  When she said, “No,” I posted my blog.  Miss Snark stopped harassing Anne Stuart, very possibly for reasons having nothing to do with my blog. What she did was harassment, which she thought she could get away with because she&#039;s anonymous.

A pseudonym is not anonymous.  Most of us go to conferences using our pseudonyms, give speeches using our pseudonyms, do book signings using our pseudonyms.  The vast majority of the people who know me, meet me, talk to me, meet me as Jennifer Crusie.  I am accountable for the words I write and I stand behind them.  (For those who want my real name, it&#039;s on the copyright page of most of my early books: Jennifer Smith.  Yeah, THAT sounds like a false name.)

&quot;Being able to complain about one’s situation without repercussions such as losing one’s job because one’s employer saw one’s blog about them&quot;  is also being able to slander one&#039;s boss and destroy his reputation without  consequences.  People who don&#039;t have the balls to face the people they&#039;re attacking, shouldn&#039;t attack. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have no problem with anonymous blogging.  I have a problems with anonymous attacks.  </p>
<p>On Nov. 3, Miss Snark called Anne Stuart the Nitwit of the Day.  On Nov 9, she posted a blog about Anne Stuart that said “Cause once is never ever enough times to be the nitwit of the day.” On Nov. 11 she posted a blog about Anne Stuart called “Nitwitery Follow up.” At that point, I asked Anne Stuart if she had run over Miss Snark’s dog.  When she said, “No,” I posted my blog.  Miss Snark stopped harassing Anne Stuart, very possibly for reasons having nothing to do with my blog. What she did was harassment, which she thought she could get away with because she&#8217;s anonymous.</p>
<p>A pseudonym is not anonymous.  Most of us go to conferences using our pseudonyms, give speeches using our pseudonyms, do book signings using our pseudonyms.  The vast majority of the people who know me, meet me, talk to me, meet me as Jennifer Crusie.  I am accountable for the words I write and I stand behind them.  (For those who want my real name, it&#8217;s on the copyright page of most of my early books: Jennifer Smith.  Yeah, THAT sounds like a false name.)</p>
<p>&#8220;Being able to complain about one’s situation without repercussions such as losing one’s job because one’s employer saw one’s blog about them&#8221;  is also being able to slander one&#8217;s boss and destroy his reputation without  consequences.  People who don&#8217;t have the balls to face the people they&#8217;re attacking, shouldn&#8217;t attack.</p>
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		<title>By: Lambie Pie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lambie Pie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Apr 2007 02:08:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the rap on anonymity has to do with the intersection of anonymity and meanness.

Secret admirers are often nice additions to a life.

Secret assassins--not so nice.

If you&#039;re going to rough someone up, at least have the--ah--nerve to put your name on your brickbats.

Marcie Lamb</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the rap on anonymity has to do with the intersection of anonymity and meanness.</p>
<p>Secret admirers are often nice additions to a life.</p>
<p>Secret assassins&#8211;not so nice.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re going to rough someone up, at least have the&#8211;ah&#8211;nerve to put your name on your brickbats.</p>
<p>Marcie Lamb</p>
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		<title>By: MJD</title>
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		<dc:creator>MJD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Dec 2006 15:18:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with the Ann O Nymous. I&#039;m not really understanding the dig at anonymous blogging. Do people really think that because a person lists a name that sounds real and posts a picture on their blog that it is really them? Many authors write under pseudonyms that people don&#039;t learn about until years after their death. Is an author evil for not wanting to write under their own name? Does that make their writing any less valid? If not, why? What is the difference between a book writer who uses a pseudonym and a blogger who does?

The fact is that there are many valid reasons for anonymous blogging including the very thing you are standing up for. Being able to complain about one&#039;s situation without repercussions such as losing one&#039;s job because one&#039;s employer saw one&#039;s blog about them.

Stephen King wrote under the pseudonym Richard Bachman for awhile. Does that make his books and career any less valid? Not only that, I believe that when he first started out as a writer, the publishing company he signed up with treated him very badly. I don&#039;t remember if he publicly complained about them or not but I do know that he went out found himself another publishing company who treated him better.

MaryJaene Desario</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with the Ann O Nymous. I&#8217;m not really understanding the dig at anonymous blogging. Do people really think that because a person lists a name that sounds real and posts a picture on their blog that it is really them? Many authors write under pseudonyms that people don&#8217;t learn about until years after their death. Is an author evil for not wanting to write under their own name? Does that make their writing any less valid? If not, why? What is the difference between a book writer who uses a pseudonym and a blogger who does?</p>
<p>The fact is that there are many valid reasons for anonymous blogging including the very thing you are standing up for. Being able to complain about one&#8217;s situation without repercussions such as losing one&#8217;s job because one&#8217;s employer saw one&#8217;s blog about them.</p>
<p>Stephen King wrote under the pseudonym Richard Bachman for awhile. Does that make his books and career any less valid? Not only that, I believe that when he first started out as a writer, the publishing company he signed up with treated him very badly. I don&#8217;t remember if he publicly complained about them or not but I do know that he went out found himself another publishing company who treated him better.</p>
<p>MaryJaene Desario</p>
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		<title>By: Ann O Nymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ann O Nymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Dec 2006 15:17:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The no anonymous comments, though, that&#039;s like me.

Color me incredibly amused by this, considering that more than fifty percent of the people leaving comments are obviously using an alias and who knows if the ones with real-sounding names are using their own names?

What exactly is the significant difference between anonymous comments and pseudonymous comments, and why is one morally superior to the other?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The no anonymous comments, though, that&#8217;s like me.</p>
<p>Color me incredibly amused by this, considering that more than fifty percent of the people leaving comments are obviously using an alias and who knows if the ones with real-sounding names are using their own names?</p>
<p>What exactly is the significant difference between anonymous comments and pseudonymous comments, and why is one morally superior to the other?</p>
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		<title>By: Zette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Nov 2006 15:16:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gary --

Yeah, I always thought that looked like an interesting way to go, but it is actually a submission method, not just random postings of novels and stories on line. (grin) I don&#039;t know. Maybe I&#039;m just helplessly behind the times, but I keep thinking that posting things you hope to sell later is just not the best idea in the world.

I do intend, however, to have a blog for stories I have either already sold or think would just be fun to share -- but I&#039;m doing it with the full understanding that these are stories that will not be going out in submissions later.

Maybe I&#039;m crazy. (Well, yes....)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gary &#8211;</p>
<p>Yeah, I always thought that looked like an interesting way to go, but it is actually a submission method, not just random postings of novels and stories on line. (grin) I don&#8217;t know. Maybe I&#8217;m just helplessly behind the times, but I keep thinking that posting things you hope to sell later is just not the best idea in the world.</p>
<p>I do intend, however, to have a blog for stories I have either already sold or think would just be fun to share &#8212; but I&#8217;m doing it with the full understanding that these are stories that will not be going out in submissions later.</p>
<p>Maybe I&#8217;m crazy. (Well, yes&#8230;.)</p>
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		<title>By: S William</title>
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		<dc:creator>S William</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Nov 2006 15:15:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amen! Amen! Amen!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen! Amen! Amen!</p>
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		<title>By: Gary Jordan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gary Jordan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Nov 2006 15:15:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Zette said, &quot;I found another of her posts troubling, though, and I wonder if you would comment. She said that there is no problem with people posting their stories online.&quot;

I&#039;ve read many articles that say just the opposite, that publishing online is frowned on by publishing companies.

That said, there is at least one publisher that has no problem with publishing online, provided you follow their rules. Baen Books. (www.Baen.com) Baen is Science Fiction and Fantasy. I&#039;m a huge Lois McMaster Bujold fan. She recommended Jenny. Now I&#039;m also a Jennifer Crusie Fan. I bought &#039;em all, some of them twice.

Anyway, they have a bulletin board - Baen&#039;s Bar (http://bar.baen.com/) and there are several &quot;conferences&quot; there, such as Slush Pile, Universe Slush, and 1632 Slush where you can post a story you&#039;d like published in whole or in part.

Many stories posted in the 1632 Slush have been picked up for publication and published in Anthologies dedicated to the &quot;1632 Universe.&quot; I can&#039;t vouch for the other slush piles. Many of the stories are unrepentant romance despite the overall SF&amp;F coating.

Baen also encourages authors to place the first story in a series in the Baen Free Library, where the eBook may be downloaded free of charge AND free of encryption (&quot;DRM&quot;). The publisher has found that the free exposure of the author and his or her stories results in More Sales of &quot;dead tree&quot; books. (http://www.baen.com/library/)

You can find Eric Flint&#039;s &quot;1632&quot; there, and read it for free. Yes, it&#039;s science fiction. It&#039;s also three wonderful romances.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Zette said, &#8220;I found another of her posts troubling, though, and I wonder if you would comment. She said that there is no problem with people posting their stories online.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve read many articles that say just the opposite, that publishing online is frowned on by publishing companies.</p>
<p>That said, there is at least one publisher that has no problem with publishing online, provided you follow their rules. Baen Books. (www.Baen.com) Baen is Science Fiction and Fantasy. I&#8217;m a huge Lois McMaster Bujold fan. She recommended Jenny. Now I&#8217;m also a Jennifer Crusie Fan. I bought &#8216;em all, some of them twice.</p>
<p>Anyway, they have a bulletin board &#8211; Baen&#8217;s Bar (<a href="http://bar.baen.com/" rel="nofollow">http://bar.baen.com/</a>) and there are several &#8220;conferences&#8221; there, such as Slush Pile, Universe Slush, and 1632 Slush where you can post a story you&#8217;d like published in whole or in part.</p>
<p>Many stories posted in the 1632 Slush have been picked up for publication and published in Anthologies dedicated to the &#8220;1632 Universe.&#8221; I can&#8217;t vouch for the other slush piles. Many of the stories are unrepentant romance despite the overall SF&#038;F coating.</p>
<p>Baen also encourages authors to place the first story in a series in the Baen Free Library, where the eBook may be downloaded free of charge AND free of encryption (&#8220;DRM&#8221;). The publisher has found that the free exposure of the author and his or her stories results in More Sales of &#8220;dead tree&#8221; books. (<a href="http://www.baen.com/library/" rel="nofollow">http://www.baen.com/library/</a>)</p>
<p>You can find Eric Flint&#8217;s &#8220;1632&#8243; there, and read it for free. Yes, it&#8217;s science fiction. It&#8217;s also three wonderful romances.</p>
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		<title>By: Cherry Red</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cherry Red</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Nov 2006 15:14:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Go Jenny! I agree with you 100%.

Kim</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Go Jenny! I agree with you 100%.</p>
<p>Kim</p>
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		<title>By: Zette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Nov 2006 15:13:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My only confusion here is really this... why is it an opinion to call someone a nitwit, but calling names to say others are (like) mean girls? Or did I miss some key point? (Which, really, wouldn&#039;t shock me at all.)

I have learned a great deal from this thread and the original post. It&#039;s plain that people have very differing views on what&#039;s happened and why, and what&#039;s good behavior and what&#039;s bad on both sides. It&#039;s been interesting to read.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My only confusion here is really this&#8230; why is it an opinion to call someone a nitwit, but calling names to say others are (like) mean girls? Or did I miss some key point? (Which, really, wouldn&#8217;t shock me at all.)</p>
<p>I have learned a great deal from this thread and the original post. It&#8217;s plain that people have very differing views on what&#8217;s happened and why, and what&#8217;s good behavior and what&#8217;s bad on both sides. It&#8217;s been interesting to read.</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Nov 2006 15:12:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice way to let this die a natural death by blogging about it Kim. You also managed to get in a dig at the posters here, but at least you weren&#039;t anonymous about it and that is more than we can say about Miss Snark-which was kind of the point of Jenny&#039;s blog.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice way to let this die a natural death by blogging about it Kim. You also managed to get in a dig at the posters here, but at least you weren&#8217;t anonymous about it and that is more than we can say about Miss Snark-which was kind of the point of Jenny&#8217;s blog.</p>
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		<title>By: Kim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Nov 2006 15:12:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Selah - Um... silly and pointless were regarding the arguments, not any one individual. And far as I know, I didn&#039;t label ANYONE as a nitwit. Actually, I haven&#039;t called anyone anything - which is more than I can say for other posters.

So, let me get this right - it&#039;s ok to call her and anyone who reads her blog names because they couldn&#039;t possibly be worthy of anything but contempt. Sheer brilliance there. That makes about as much sense as this entire ridiculous argument.

Truth - If you want to call names, go right ahead. I will not stoop to that level. With any luck this entire SILLY and POINTLESS argument will die a natural death. I, for one, have had enough.

Peace.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Selah &#8211; Um&#8230; silly and pointless were regarding the arguments, not any one individual. And far as I know, I didn&#8217;t label ANYONE as a nitwit. Actually, I haven&#8217;t called anyone anything &#8211; which is more than I can say for other posters.</p>
<p>So, let me get this right &#8211; it&#8217;s ok to call her and anyone who reads her blog names because they couldn&#8217;t possibly be worthy of anything but contempt. Sheer brilliance there. That makes about as much sense as this entire ridiculous argument.</p>
<p>Truth &#8211; If you want to call names, go right ahead. I will not stoop to that level. With any luck this entire SILLY and POINTLESS argument will die a natural death. I, for one, have had enough.</p>
<p>Peace.</p>
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		<title>By: Selah March</title>
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		<dc:creator>Selah March</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Nov 2006 15:11:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why should anyone apologize for their opinion? I don&#039;t see anyone demanding Anne Stuart apologize for her opinion, or anyone here apologize for theirs. And if one&#039;s blog is one&#039;s forum, why should Miss Snark have to apologize for the opinion she posted on her blog? Yeesh... It&#039;s time people grow up and stop this whole I won&#039;t do unless she does first nonsense. That&#039;s just as silly and equally pointless.

Kim - One&#039;s blog is indeed one&#039;s forum. Snark has every right to post her opinion there, even if it includes being &quot;silly&quot; and &quot;pointless&quot; enough to toss around labels like &quot;nitwit.&quot; (You ARE the one who brought up name-calling, aren&#039;t you?) But if she&#039;s going to stoop to that level, she should be prepared for some negative reaction. And so should her Snarklings.

You want truths as opposed to half-truths? Truth: You reap what you sow.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why should anyone apologize for their opinion? I don&#8217;t see anyone demanding Anne Stuart apologize for her opinion, or anyone here apologize for theirs. And if one&#8217;s blog is one&#8217;s forum, why should Miss Snark have to apologize for the opinion she posted on her blog? Yeesh&#8230; It&#8217;s time people grow up and stop this whole I won&#8217;t do unless she does first nonsense. That&#8217;s just as silly and equally pointless.</p>
<p>Kim &#8211; One&#8217;s blog is indeed one&#8217;s forum. Snark has every right to post her opinion there, even if it includes being &#8220;silly&#8221; and &#8220;pointless&#8221; enough to toss around labels like &#8220;nitwit.&#8221; (You ARE the one who brought up name-calling, aren&#8217;t you?) But if she&#8217;s going to stoop to that level, she should be prepared for some negative reaction. And so should her Snarklings.</p>
<p>You want truths as opposed to half-truths? Truth: You reap what you sow.</p>
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		<title>By: Zette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Nov 2006 15:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This has been a fascinating set of posts, by the way. I agree with Deb on her &#039;packet of salt&#039; remark. I have contact with many new writers on the Internet, and I&#039;ve found it disturbing that so many of them are willing to quote Miss Snark as gospel without ever really knowing anything about her or if what she posts applies to them. It&#039;s troubling, sometimes. In fact, I suspect that most of her followers are in the &#039;too new to know better&#039; group. I might be wrong, really -- but I don&#039;t see a lot of professional names there, and I certainly don&#039;t see a lot of professional behavior. I run a site for writers that does attract a few published authors, and I don&#039;t think any of them would ever consider being that rude to people who just came looking for help and answers. But then, again, that is also the difference in approach. We have rules about rudeness.

That&#039;s not to say all of them are new to writing, or that all of them are rude or clueless in their own ways -- but there is a strong current, I think, that encourages it.

I&#039;ve also been thinking more and more about the new Cult of Rudeness that seems to be popular these days. I don&#039;t get it myself, and I&#039;ll probably blog on that later today, just to get it out of my system.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This has been a fascinating set of posts, by the way. I agree with Deb on her &#8216;packet of salt&#8217; remark. I have contact with many new writers on the Internet, and I&#8217;ve found it disturbing that so many of them are willing to quote Miss Snark as gospel without ever really knowing anything about her or if what she posts applies to them. It&#8217;s troubling, sometimes. In fact, I suspect that most of her followers are in the &#8216;too new to know better&#8217; group. I might be wrong, really &#8212; but I don&#8217;t see a lot of professional names there, and I certainly don&#8217;t see a lot of professional behavior. I run a site for writers that does attract a few published authors, and I don&#8217;t think any of them would ever consider being that rude to people who just came looking for help and answers. But then, again, that is also the difference in approach. We have rules about rudeness.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s not to say all of them are new to writing, or that all of them are rude or clueless in their own ways &#8212; but there is a strong current, I think, that encourages it.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve also been thinking more and more about the new Cult of Rudeness that seems to be popular these days. I don&#8217;t get it myself, and I&#8217;ll probably blog on that later today, just to get it out of my system.</p>
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		<title>By: Deb</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Nov 2006 15:10:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am humbled when anyone stands up publicly at risk to themselves, in this case a career. Bravo.

However, I’m having a difficult time trying to read the disrespect in Ms. Stuart’s statements. She indicated she disagrees with her publisher on some business issues. Had she raked the publisher over the coals, or indicated the publisher had “shoddy” business practices, I could see it. If anyone is deluded in thinking that Publishing is the only industry in which the bottom line (profits) is king, think again. Seems to me Ms. Stuart simply stated the obvious and indicated that as a writer, it is of concern. Perhaps I’m simply a nitwit. It doesn’t concern me in the least; I am in pretty fine company.

As for the anonymous Ms. Snark blog, I have a difficult time understanding why any fledgling writer would never question “her”. Anyone can start a blog and claim to be an authority in anything, if they present their expertise anonymously. Anyone reading and following this blog should do so with a packet of salt, rather than “clue cake”.

To the readers who remain so loyal as to issue death threats via electronic means (as indicated in a previous comment), that is a crime. The Police and other authorities would and should follow-up.

Deb.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am humbled when anyone stands up publicly at risk to themselves, in this case a career. Bravo.</p>
<p>However, I’m having a difficult time trying to read the disrespect in Ms. Stuart’s statements. She indicated she disagrees with her publisher on some business issues. Had she raked the publisher over the coals, or indicated the publisher had “shoddy” business practices, I could see it. If anyone is deluded in thinking that Publishing is the only industry in which the bottom line (profits) is king, think again. Seems to me Ms. Stuart simply stated the obvious and indicated that as a writer, it is of concern. Perhaps I’m simply a nitwit. It doesn’t concern me in the least; I am in pretty fine company.</p>
<p>As for the anonymous Ms. Snark blog, I have a difficult time understanding why any fledgling writer would never question “her”. Anyone can start a blog and claim to be an authority in anything, if they present their expertise anonymously. Anyone reading and following this blog should do so with a packet of salt, rather than “clue cake”.</p>
<p>To the readers who remain so loyal as to issue death threats via electronic means (as indicated in a previous comment), that is a crime. The Police and other authorities would and should follow-up.</p>
<p>Deb.</p>
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		<title>By: Kim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Nov 2006 15:09:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why should anyone apologize for their opinion? I don&#039;t see anyone demanding Anne Stuart apologize for her opinion, or anyone here apologize for theirs. And if one&#039;s blog is one&#039;s forum, why should Miss Snark have to apologize for the opinion she posted on her blog? Yeesh... It&#039;s time people grow up and stop this whole I won&#039;t do unless she does first nonsense. That&#039;s just as silly and equally pointless.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why should anyone apologize for their opinion? I don&#8217;t see anyone demanding Anne Stuart apologize for her opinion, or anyone here apologize for theirs. And if one&#8217;s blog is one&#8217;s forum, why should Miss Snark have to apologize for the opinion she posted on her blog? Yeesh&#8230; It&#8217;s time people grow up and stop this whole I won&#8217;t do unless she does first nonsense. That&#8217;s just as silly and equally pointless.</p>
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		<title>By: Selah March</title>
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		<dc:creator>Selah March</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Nov 2006 15:09:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it&#039;s great that she has a friend like Jenny Cruisie to defend her. But I also think it&#039;s great that people can dissent and disagree, but I hate all of the name calling going on. It&#039;s silly and pointless.

Agreed. We should quit calling names. Miss Snark can begin by retracting and apologizing for &quot;nitwit,&quot; which I believe was the first salvo, was it not?

Yeah. I won&#039;t be holding my breath. Blue is SO not my color.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it&#8217;s great that she has a friend like Jenny Cruisie to defend her. But I also think it&#8217;s great that people can dissent and disagree, but I hate all of the name calling going on. It&#8217;s silly and pointless.</p>
<p>Agreed. We should quit calling names. Miss Snark can begin by retracting and apologizing for &#8220;nitwit,&#8221; which I believe was the first salvo, was it not?</p>
<p>Yeah. I won&#8217;t be holding my breath. Blue is SO not my color.</p>
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		<title>By: Kim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 15:08:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I originally was going to keep my mouth shut because this is so silly for people to be going back and forth on that I would just like to see it die a quiet death.

Then I read Sarah Yoffa&#039;s post.

I remember the mistake she&#039;s talking about, the one that she didn&#039;t actually mention in her comment here. And I remember commenting on it. Most of the people who did were absolutely aghast at it and I think their comments reflected that. In fact, a few insisted it HAD to be a joke.

This little mistake was that Ms Yoffa posted on her blog a way to have an editor at Tor notice her manuscript and want to request it. She posted the first chapter or so on her blog, invited people to read it, and then suggested that these readers post a comment on this Tor editor&#039;s blog telling her why she should want to read this manuscript.

Spam Tor.

And she wonders why the snarklings did a collective WTF???

And the post came down within hours. An apology was offered, but instead of saying &#039;I screwed up&#039;, it was everyone else who took it the wrong way. A left-handed apology, if you will.

Yes, sometimes the commenters are not all warm and fuzzy. They can be cruel. And not all of us agree with everything and everyone who comments, or even with the posts themselves. But if you&#039;re going to slam, as Ms Yoffa did, also admit to WHY it was that all of us rotten, Mean Girl snarklings were commenting on. And most of us were saying, it will be one of the worst things you could do. Maybe we should&#039;ve kept quiet and let Ms Yoffa shoot herself in the foot and piss off an editor (this editor did mention the entire incident on her blog and her tone suggested she was not happy with the idea. From what I understand, the editor in question left a rather pointed comment on Miss Yoffa&#039;s blog.) In that case, as one of those who said &#039;what the hell is she thinking&#039;, I apologize. Sarah, I&#039;m sure it would have gotten you results. Just probably not the one you wanted.

As for the crapometer, if you submit without knowing exactly what you&#039;re submitting to, you reap what you sow. Maybe you should look into then avenues to which you submit your &#039;precious baby&#039; instead of simply hitting send?

Anne Stuart is well within her rights to say (or post) what she wishes. I think it&#039;s great that she has a friend like Jenny Cruisie to defend her. But I also think it&#039;s great that people can dissent and disagree, but I hate all of the name calling going on. It&#039;s silly and pointless. I will sign my name to this and what will be, will be, I guess. I just don&#039;t like half-truths being tossed out as whole truths.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I originally was going to keep my mouth shut because this is so silly for people to be going back and forth on that I would just like to see it die a quiet death.</p>
<p>Then I read Sarah Yoffa&#8217;s post.</p>
<p>I remember the mistake she&#8217;s talking about, the one that she didn&#8217;t actually mention in her comment here. And I remember commenting on it. Most of the people who did were absolutely aghast at it and I think their comments reflected that. In fact, a few insisted it HAD to be a joke.</p>
<p>This little mistake was that Ms Yoffa posted on her blog a way to have an editor at Tor notice her manuscript and want to request it. She posted the first chapter or so on her blog, invited people to read it, and then suggested that these readers post a comment on this Tor editor&#8217;s blog telling her why she should want to read this manuscript.</p>
<p>Spam Tor.</p>
<p>And she wonders why the snarklings did a collective WTF???</p>
<p>And the post came down within hours. An apology was offered, but instead of saying &#8216;I screwed up&#8217;, it was everyone else who took it the wrong way. A left-handed apology, if you will.</p>
<p>Yes, sometimes the commenters are not all warm and fuzzy. They can be cruel. And not all of us agree with everything and everyone who comments, or even with the posts themselves. But if you&#8217;re going to slam, as Ms Yoffa did, also admit to WHY it was that all of us rotten, Mean Girl snarklings were commenting on. And most of us were saying, it will be one of the worst things you could do. Maybe we should&#8217;ve kept quiet and let Ms Yoffa shoot herself in the foot and piss off an editor (this editor did mention the entire incident on her blog and her tone suggested she was not happy with the idea. From what I understand, the editor in question left a rather pointed comment on Miss Yoffa&#8217;s blog.) In that case, as one of those who said &#8216;what the hell is she thinking&#8217;, I apologize. Sarah, I&#8217;m sure it would have gotten you results. Just probably not the one you wanted.</p>
<p>As for the crapometer, if you submit without knowing exactly what you&#8217;re submitting to, you reap what you sow. Maybe you should look into then avenues to which you submit your &#8216;precious baby&#8217; instead of simply hitting send?</p>
<p>Anne Stuart is well within her rights to say (or post) what she wishes. I think it&#8217;s great that she has a friend like Jenny Cruisie to defend her. But I also think it&#8217;s great that people can dissent and disagree, but I hate all of the name calling going on. It&#8217;s silly and pointless. I will sign my name to this and what will be, will be, I guess. I just don&#8217;t like half-truths being tossed out as whole truths.</p>
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		<title>By: orangehands</title>
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		<dc:creator>orangehands</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 15:07:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>-sry: sorry to hear you had to use the FBI threat to get these people off your back.</description>
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		<title>By: Teddy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Teddy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 15:06:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am not going to take the popular side here. I will say that I think all three parties have something very valid to say (when one cuts through all the cynical remarks). I do not think any side is 100% wrong or any party is 100% right. I think one must take it all in perspective. Additionally, I posted about this in my blog Cobwebs Of The Mind in the thread entitled: Think Long And Hard Before...It May Be Your Only Chance trying to discuss the pros and cons in a non-confrontational atmosphere of this argument.
All that being said if anyone is interested, there is a thread over at Absolute Write which is discussing this very problem: Should You Ever Speak Out Against Your Publisher?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am not going to take the popular side here. I will say that I think all three parties have something very valid to say (when one cuts through all the cynical remarks). I do not think any side is 100% wrong or any party is 100% right. I think one must take it all in perspective. Additionally, I posted about this in my blog Cobwebs Of The Mind in the thread entitled: Think Long And Hard Before&#8230;It May Be Your Only Chance trying to discuss the pros and cons in a non-confrontational atmosphere of this argument.<br />
All that being said if anyone is interested, there is a thread over at Absolute Write which is discussing this very problem: Should You Ever Speak Out Against Your Publisher?</p>
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		<title>By: Cathy Writes Romance</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cathy Writes Romance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 15:06:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The most disheartening thing about Miss Snark&#039;s blog (besides her bashing the great Anne Stuart) are the snarklings bashing their fellow aspiring writers. It becomes a feeding frenzy. It seems as if some people believe that by posting how wise (and snarkily snotty) they are, they will get recognition and requests to see partials and fulls and offers of representation because they are in the know.

It doesn&#039;t work that way. Scintillating writing, ladies and gentleman, scintillating writing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The most disheartening thing about Miss Snark&#8217;s blog (besides her bashing the great Anne Stuart) are the snarklings bashing their fellow aspiring writers. It becomes a feeding frenzy. It seems as if some people believe that by posting how wise (and snarkily snotty) they are, they will get recognition and requests to see partials and fulls and offers of representation because they are in the know.</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t work that way. Scintillating writing, ladies and gentleman, scintillating writing.</p>
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